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Rev. Peter Eckardt – husband to Allison, father to +Jordan+, and Acquaintance Pastor of Immanuel Lutheran Church and School in Alexandria, Virginia – recently wrote a alphabetic character of condolement and support to his congregation almost the tender subject of miscarriage. We are most thankful to him for allowing united states to share this letter with all of you.

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What virtually Miscarriages?

What practise you exercise when you experience a miscarriage? This is a question that no expectant couple wants to address and nevertheless desperately needs the answers to as soon as tragedy strikes.

Allison and I were expecting our first child. We were excited, nervous, terrified, and overjoyed all at the same time. Nosotros were reading books and pamphlets, downloading pregnancy-tracking apps, and talking to numerous mothers and fathers—all to ready us for the rest of the pregnancy, for birth, and for everything that was to follow. We were learning more and more than about our baby's development. At eight weeks gestation, we had already heard and seen the infant's heartbeat via ultrasound—how special that was! Only at x weeks and half dozen days, we were completely unprepared for the miscarriage that happened in the middle of the night.

‪QUESTIONS

‪In the hours and days following the miscarriage that Allison and I experienced a month ago, several questions flooded our minds, and we had petty idea of what the "right matter to do" was. We were able to preserve the remains of our infant, merely at present what? Can we, should we, bury our child? How would we become nigh doing that? Tin we have a funeral service at the church for our unbaptized infant? Is that sort of affair washed? What comfort do we have, if any, that our babe is in heaven? Should we proper name him or her?

Those of you lot who take experienced a miscarriage may have your own fix of questions you'd like to add together to this list. I volition not attempt to answer all miscarriage-related questions in this alphabetic character—and, indeed, non all of them accept a clear, correct or incorrect answer—but I'd like to at least begin the conversation with a few points.

‪Promise‪
GOD'S POWER IS BOUNDLESS

‪If yous accept had a miscarriage, I want you to know that there are many promises of peace and hope for y'all and for your departed little 1. You need not fear that, because your child was non able to be baptized, he or she is therefore unable to be included in God's kingdom. Though God indeed attaches his promises of grace and forgiveness to His holy sacraments, He does not limit His power to these sacraments. Unbaptized, the thief on the cantankerous comes to faith in his final hour and is told by our Lord the he will be with Him in Paradise (Luke 23:43). God is the maker of heaven and globe; He tin can practice all things.

GOD HEARS OUR PRAYERS

Moreover, we know that "the constructive, fervent prayer of a righteous man [i.e., a Christian!] assets much (James 5:16). Our Lord tells us to ask and it volition be given to usa (Matt. vii:vii) and that whatever we ask in His proper noun, He will give us (John 14:thirteen). Likewise, God says in Psalm 50, "Telephone call upon me in the day of trouble; I will deliver you" (Psalm 50:xv). And fifty-fifty if we have non prayed as nosotros ought, the Spirit offers prayers for us in our weakness (Rom. 8:26-27). The Lutheran Service Book Agenda, which has a rite of "Burial for a Stillborn Child or Unbaptized Child," states: "While alive and in the womb, this child was brought and commended to Christ in our prayers. We should not dubiety that these prayers have been heard, for we have God'southward own kind and comforting promises that such prayers in the name of Jesus Christ are heard by Him" (132).

Martin Luther wrote a letter of condolement for women who have had a miscarriage, and in information technology he besides emphasizes the power of Christian prayer: "One should non despise a Christian person as if he were a Turk, a pagan, or a godless person. He is precious in God's sight and his prayer is powerful and dandy, for he has been sanctified by Christ's claret and all-powerful with the Spirit of God. Whatever he sincerely prays for, specially in the unexpressed yearning of his eye, becomes a nifty, unbearable cry in God's ears, God must listen, as he did to Moses, Exodus fourteen [:15], 'Why practice you cry to me?' even though Moses couldn't whisper, so dandy was his anxiety and trembling in the terrible troubles that beset him." (Read unabridged alphabetic character here.)

‪ THE HOLY SPIRIT Tin can Work THROUGH THE WOMB

‪Every bit Scripture teaches, we believe that infants can receive the Holy Spirit and the gift of faith without nevertheless being able to rationally hear and understand the words of Scripture. The infant John the Baptist leapt for joy in Elizabeth'due south womb when he heard the sound of Mary's greeting (Luke i:39-45). This was surely the work of the Holy Spirit, for He is able to create faith fifty-fifty through the womb. It is indeed truthful that "with God all things are possible" (Matt 19:26).

‪ JESUS LOVES LITTLE ONES

‪Consider also how our Lord Jesus shows compassion toward the littlest of children, praising their organized religion. In i example, Jesus sets a footling child in the midst of his disciples and says, "Unless you lot turn and become like children you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. . . . Run across that you practise not despise one of these trivial ones. For I tell you lot that in sky their angels always see the face of my Father who is in heaven. . . . It is non the will of my Begetter who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish" (Matt. eighteen:3, 10, 11). In another case, "they were bringing even infants to [Jesus] that he might touch them. And when the disciples saw it, they rebuked them. But Jesus called them to him, saying, 'Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God'" (Luke 18:15-17). There is no question that Jesus has a special, tender regard for the little ones.

‪ GOD KNOWS Usa FROM CONCEPTION

‪Psalm 139 speaks beautifully of God's intimate knowledge and intendance of his children, even from their conception in the womb:

‪"For y'all formed my inwards parts;
yous knitted me together in my mother's womb.
‪I praise you, for I am appallingly and wonderfully made. . . .
Your eyes saw my unformed substance;
(Ps. 139:xiii-xvi)

‪ We SHALL Become TO THEM

‪Finally, a passage I discover particularly poignant and comforting is the account of the death of King David'south showtime child in 2 Samuel 12:15-23. David's son is afflicted by God upon nascence and dies afterwards seven days (significant considering his circumcision—the Quondam Testament equivalent to the sacrament of Baptism—would have been on the eighth day). During that time, David beseeches the Lord to be merciful and to spare his son from death. Merely when the child dies, he stops mourning, worships the Lord, and says, "I shall go to him, but he will not return to me." With these words David appears to exist expressing hope in the resurrection and in a blessed reunion with his son in heaven.

With all of this in mind, answers to some of the previously-mentioned questions first to become clearer. Yep, you may have comfort that your unbaptized child who died an untimely death has been brought to the artillery of Jesus in paradise and awaits the resurrection. Yeah, yous may ask your pastor for a funeral service in the church. And yes, you may give your miscarried children a Christian burial.

‪Burial

There is no single right style to bury your miscarried infant, nor is it even possible in many cases, depending on the state of affairs. Sometimes, the remains are not able to be preserved, parents do not know that they can preserve them, or they unknowingly dispose of them. If the miscarriage happens at a hospital, for example, the couple may accept to insist that they exist given the remains for the purpose of burial. Otherwise, the remains may merely exist disposed of by the hospital as a matter of protocol. For Christian parents who did not or were not able to keep the remains of their child for burial, there is no need to be burdened with guilt or regret. Take center, and know that our good and gracious Lord holds your child in His arms regardless of the state of your baby'southward bodily remains and that He tin can and will resurrect your child on the Final Twenty-four hour period even without a burial site. Our God is abounding in steadfast beloved, forgiveness, and mercy to both you and your piddling ones.

‪For those who are able, however, it is a proficient and commendable thing to keep the remains of a miscarried baby and to seek an appropriate artery for Christian burial. Ask your pastor for guidance, as each state of affairs may be unique. Though the earth around us pays footling attention to miscarriages and oft expects mothers and fathers to simply move on or to get over the miscarriage quickly, nosotros Christians take an opportunity to boldly confess that a baby who dies by miscarriage—and who may but exist a few centimeters long and a few weeks old—is just equally much a human life created by God as yous or I. Whenever a miscarriage happens, nosotros ought to acknowledge both the very existent life of the kid that has ended, and the very real loss that the parents are undergoing. And as Christians, we must non forget to confess our promise in Jesus Christ, our God and Savior, whose good and gracious will is always better than ours. "And we know that for those who love God all things work together for proficient, for those who are called co-ordinate to his purpose" (Rom. 8:28).

‪Allison and I decided to have our baby Jordan buried in Richmond, VA, at Mt. Calvary Cemetery. This particular cemetery donates land specifically for the burying of miscarried babies. Burying services are also provided through the goodwill and cooperation of the The Catholic Diocese of Richmond, Bliley Funeral home, and Richmond expanse hospitals. They acquit burials of miscarried infants near one time calendar month, reverently interring several miscarried children together in a unmarried plot of land. Tiny white caskets are used with the names of the babies placed on each. Allison and I were in Richmond this past Wednesday for our baby Jordan'south burial. Nosotros are extremely grateful for this gracious program and have talked virtually how nice it would exist if more such programs were available for Christian families.

‪In that location is much more to say on this entire topic, and I plan to do so another fourth dimension in order to comfort and assist those who have been and will be affected by miscarriage. Information technology is, unfortunately, a common tragedy amid us, merely its frequency does not make it any less sorrowful.

‪"The last enemy to be destroyed is expiry" (1 Cor. 15:26).

‪In closing I'd like to offer this prayer from the LSB Calendar for all who take lost children, grandchildren, nieces and nephews, through miscarriage:

‪ Heavenly Father, Your Son bore all our griefs and carried all our sorrows. Strengthen the religion of these grieving parents and all who conduct this heavy burden. Help them to rely on Your boundless mercy and to trust that their little one, who has been gathered into Your loving arms, volition rise on the Last Day; through Jesus Christ, Your Son, our Lord, who lives and reigns with You and the Holy Spirit, i God, at present and forever. Amen.

‪Blessings in Christ,
Pastor Eckardt

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